Audrey Mae SpencerSpencer Historical CemeteryHenry Straight / William Spencer Family Cemetery
Vaughn Historical CemeterySpencers of East Greenwich, RI
Life at Alpine Nursing Home
4 September 2004

Heather: Hello, Mother, this is Heather.

Audrey: Today must be Saturday!

This is a very interesting place to be. They bring in our food. I like to stay in my room. Sometimes, I just sit on the edge of my bed (and look out the window) and they just wheel over my table. I don’t have to wait at all here in my room. When I go to the dining room, I have to wait for my food.

 

4 September 2004

H: Who have you seen lately?

Audrey: Doug was here. He is looking up the MacDonald ancestry. Dawn was here with George. I like him. I’m very happy for her. She looks very, very good. Amber took me riding. She is here a lot. She is full of life. (Steve) is so good to her. He is wonderful. I’m happy for her. I was over to her house. I had lunch on her table. She took me around and we went riding.

 

4 September 2004

Heather: When your grandchildren were little, whom do you think they looked like? What about Mark and Michelle?

Audrey: They were very good looking, cute kids. They had dark hair, whereas Vaughn’s hair was light as a child. Michelle and Mark’s great grandfather (maternal side) was English. I think his name was Richardson, but I am not sure. I thought April was cute, and Stephanie was a nice looking girl. My mother had blue eyes so she wanted blue eyed babies. Grandpa and the Spencers had green eyes. My eyes are green and Ed and Edith’s eyes were not blue. (They were) either green or brown. I can’t seem to remember. Spencer was the first blue eyed baby born. My mother was so happy that my babies (five of the seven children) had blue eyes.

4 September 2004

Heather: What was the color of Anna Lucia’s eyes?

Audrey: Anna Cecilia had green or brown. I can not remember.

4 September 2004

Heather: Did you want blue eyed babies?

Audrey: Oh, I didn’t care if (the eyes) blue, green or brown, just as long as they were big and pretty eyes. Dad and I had pretty kids!

(I often say to myself), what was the matter with my head? Having kids as if it was nothing? Having so many kids? I think now I’m glad I had them. I don’t want to get rid of them. I’ve got them and I want to keep them! But what was wrong with my head to have so many kids and not think a thing about it?

I was happy as a bug (in a rug).  I would rock you always as I just loved to have a baby in my arms. I would rock (the baby) back and forth in my arms. No wonder that I had a small waist. I like infants the best. I could hold a baby forever in my arms. Three and four year olds are still pretty fun, but I loved (the stage) when you were just babies. You grew up so fast.

You (Heather) were a fat, pudgy baby when you were born. Then you were thin for the rest of your life.

 

4 September 2004

Heather: What are you feeling about Alpine now?

Audrey: I’m so happy with Alpine.

Outsiders think this is a place where crazy people are, but (Alpine residents) are all intelligent.  It isn’t a dumb place. I remember when I first came in, some people had problems with Alpine.

This is my home now.

Oh dear, I have to unwrap my hand from the phone.

4 September 2004

Heather: Well, we have been talking almost an hour, so your hand is letting you know. What book are you reading now?

Audrey: The newscaster guy, Tom Brokaw.

4 September 2004

Heather: Great! I’ll call you next week and I am looking forward to seeing you next month for the October 3rd gathering at Alpine. I love you, Mother.

Audrey: I love you, dear.

11 September 2004

Heather: Hello, Mother. How are you doing today at Alpine?

I feel fine.  I sit here and look out (the window).  Always something going on.

When Amber comes over, she fixes the bookcase.  Amber hasn’t come over lately.   O dear, I’m getting sleepy.

11 September 2004

Heather: O.K. I’ll call tomorrow. I love you.

Yes, I love you too, Heather.