Audrey Mae SpencerSpencer Historical CemeteryHenry Straight / William Spencer Family Cemetery
Vaughn Historical CemeterySpencers of East Greenwich, RI
18 September 2002

Heather: How are you today?

Audrey: I just had breakfast. I sit and read and look out the window. Two old ladies walk by every day. I’m reading Huckleberry Finn and The Christmas Carol by Dickens. Nothing stays much in my head.

18 October 2002

Heather: How is your October going’?

Audrey: Well, it is raining. Ernie is working on the house. He works all day. Danny, his son, meets him on the roof.

Buddy doesn’t like the rain.

I had a great time–a wonderful week–I did something every day. I’m having a good time.

18 October 2002

Heather: What do you remember about your grandparents?

Audrey: My father’s mother, Anna Maria (pronounced Anna Mar-eye-ah), came to stay with us. I was quite little and they talked about her all the time. I was little but I know what was said. Grandmother died and the coffin was in the front room. I was quite little and couldn’t see up in the casket. I knew it was my grandmother. I was big enough to understand.

My mother’s father,  Charles Vaughn*, was tall and always wore dark boots. His brother Christopher was tall and thin also. They are buried at the Vaughn Historical Cemetery in the Fairground by Barton’s Corners. The Vaughn homestead was there where the Fairground used to be. They had a blacksmith shop on our land. I could always hear banging from the shop. It must have been my grandfather Vaughn. When my mother’s mother died, I remember going over to her house and the casket or bed was behind the door. I never remember seeing my great-grandmother.

*Charles and Lydia Edith Vaughn’s, Audrey’s maternal grandparents’, homestead is by the 95 Freeway and Route 2 and Division Road.

Charles Vaughn

 

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The Vaughn Homestead – Lydia Edith and Charles Vaughn, Martha, Susan, MaryJane, Walter, Ebin

23 October 2002

Heather: What do you remember about Anna Maria’s mother?

Audrey: Anna Maria’s mother, Ann Almy Tarbox Spencer, was kind of a nut, a high flyer. She was always going places and gallivanting around. When Richard Anthony Spencer, Anna Maria’s father died at age twenty-seven years, Richard Anthony’s sister Audra took care of Anna Maria (pronounced Anna Mar-eye-ah). Richard Anthony’s sister, our Aunt Mandy, and Anna Maria were good friends as there was only eight years difference in their age.
23 October 2002

Heather: How is it that Anna Mirah* has Anna Maria written on her tombstone and in John Johnson Spencer’s Civil War pension plan, her name is also spelled with a “Y” as Anna Myriah?

Anna Maria Spencer

Audrey: I never remember seeing it with a Y! All I ever heard was Anna Mirah. The writing on stones was not professional. I don’t ever remember seeing a “y”, I was 1-1/2 years old when she died. I walked around the casket. I couldn’t see in but I walked around it.

*Anna Maria (pronounced Mar-eye-ah) was Audrey Mae’s paternal grandmother. Audrey always referred to her grandmother as Anna Mirah (aka Myriah).  An outside explanation of Maria being pronounced as Mar-eye-ah is in a book, “Play It As It Lays” by Joan Didion.
23 October 2002

Heather: Who became “little sick gramma”? Was it Anna Mirah or her mother, Ann Almy Tarbox?

Audrey: Oh, I can’t remember now, but it is all written down somewhere.

23 October 2002

Heather: How is Violet related to us?

Violet Kettelle

 

Audrey: Her aunt married Joseph Jason Spencer who was a grandson of Deacon* Richard.  Joseph Jason was an angel, but all the Kettelles thought he was lazy.

* Richard Anthony (“Deacon”) Spencer

30 October 2002

Heather: Mother, where did you keep all your artistic work from RISD and the large rolled up diploma from West Warwick high school all those years?

Audrey Mae Spencer R.I.S.D. Student

 

Audrey: I had two black cases to put things in. The smaller pieces went in the smaller case and I slipped both cases under my bed. The big papers that couldn’t be folded were put in the larger black case. The painted fruit on the oil canvas, we hung up.

Oil Painting,Drape,Pitcher Apple and Bowl

30 October 2002

Heather: How did you get to the School of Design in Providence from Coventry? After all, those were the Great Depression Years.

Audrey: I went (both ways) on the train.  We would get off the train and walk to school. We would cross over the bridge that was right before the School of Design. We went to the edge and there was a door there to go in the School of Design.  On my way home to the train, I would buy an apple for five cents from a handsome young man standing there selling apples.

I’ll never forget the time, Maisie and I walked home from the School of Design. We did it! We went along. We tried it!*

*The distance between RISD and 742 Washington Street in Coventry, R.I. where Audrey lived was around 15 miles.
 
6 November 2002

Heather: Hello Mother, today is Wednesday and Crystal has gone to watch the quads, so I am calling you. What’s happening?

Audrey: It is raining and the leaves are dropping. The trees will be bare pretty soon. I’m getting old. I’m happy I’m here. I have the cat and Buddy (the dog) for friends. Buddy carts a rag baby around in his mouth, and he looks so happy every time he finds it.

Brenda looks good. She says she is not dying with cancer. She is living with cancer. She has had the water drawn off. She is a fighter. I’ve never seen her look better. She wears the hats that Deardra designed and everyone is asking about those hats. They make her look so pretty. Spencer is fine. He’s determined that Brenda will live and he will not think of her dying. She is a fighter and he is right with her.